As the ancients said, think twice before taking a step, and never look back. A generous person rarely hesitates. He will think about everything thoroughly before taking action. A generous person must be careful, calm, decisive, and full of practical spirit.Don't be too sensitive. Thinking too much will hurt yourself. The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional. You have to think about a casual word. Isn't it tiring to think about it? Many things are remembered by the listener, but the speaker has already forgotten them.