No one's growth is achieved overnight. The person you are now is the result of the influence of your parents in childhood, the guidance of your teachers in school, and the polishing of your social life. Through careful and gradual refinement, you have become the person you are today. Therefore, please give yourself a little more affirmation. You can accept all the praise or criticism from others, but don't deny yourself just because of their words. Only you know how the past years came, and no one has the right to force you to be like anyone.