Achieving-Lives Ltd is a coaching company which specialises in the use of ideas from the Psychology of flow, Positive Psychology, psychology of excellence, and Neuro-Linguistic Programming to ensure clients not only access their own personal state of flow, but also know how to retain that state when they encounter challenges down stream. The opposite of stress is not relaxation, but an individual perception of competence, which leads to relaxation. Many people in work and play struggle in managing their stressful states. Achieving Lives shows how by managing your own individual or collective states of flow you can then learn to focus both consciously and unconsciously on those areas which are important to you and move forward effectively irrespective of challenges in the outside world