After Defining Your Life after having lived it. Looking backward, at how many times you were conned, scammed, had a health condition that you didn't ask for, or a broken relationship, Or dreams that possibly just didn't come true.Consider that all of these experiences were all equivalent to a given set of rationals and were pre designed to an x factor of mystery. And at this time could you ask yourself if you had this knowledge of factor x, would you,. change the outcome of these circumstances, make the right decisions, see things more rationally, set better goals for yourself. Take more risks, or reach your full potential. Or not get Conned out of your Dreams