I would summarize myself and objectives as such; Myself, now older than I actually planned to be, but happy I am. Life seems to drug me kicking & screaming all the way- one day I looked up and determined my life was not so bad after all!! As I met/ discovered the objectives of becoming a better person and being more tolerant of others than myself, the "good life" rather fell into place. If you find yourself living longer than anticipated or even wanted to then asses why that is. Could well be you are included in God's greater plan after all and probably have been since birth. Perhaps you never got all you wanted, but consider this- you are rich simply because you needed the least.DC