At 40, I came to a complete state of surrender. It was so painful and scary—but I made a decision to let go of the dream life I had envisioned for myself: to be married and have children. “Besides,” I thought, “At my age, I doubt I’ll ever be able to conceive.”However, I held onto the idea of finding my soulmate. But I knew that in order to bring him into my life, I had to do something different. I had to go deeper and more fearlessly into the inner terrain that I most feared; the “blind spots” that kept me stuck in the same cycle of disappointment and frustration. And then, something miraculous happened. It actually worked.After two years of this intense journey, rapid change began to take place. I met my incredible soulmate. A year and half later, at age 44 we married.At age 45, my husband and I experienced a miracle that surprised everyone, especially us. I became pregnant and gave birth to our son, a beautiful healthy baby boy.I tell my story because I know that so many people are suffering, believing that they aren’t good enough, or that there’s something “wrong” with them. I know that these same people “go to work” on themselves—whether through healing methodologies or destructive habits—trying to fill the emptiness that they think only a partner can fill. But this isn’t a “happily ever after” story: this is a Happiness Ever-Unfolding StoryHere’s the truth. Nobody is perfect, and nobody is supposed to be. There is hope, and there’s nothing wrong with you! You can find lasting, incredible love—at any age. My work is a distillation of everything I’ve learned in the last four decades about self-love, partnership, and living a life of your dreams. I’ve helped my clients reclaim their serenity, heal wounds that no other modality [including therapy] was able to help, and find lasting love—starting with loving themselves.