If i let my drive get the best of myself, i can be workaholics, my quest involves finding a sweet balance between the wise and serious elder in myself and the playful child-at-heart.In love and sex as you may have guessed, i doesn't do drama or flightiness in love. I have no problem committing to the right person.However, finding "the one" can be a challenge for me. I can be perfectionists. Just as goal-oriented in love as I am in work, and i'll often have a plan or set of qualities that I am searching for in a person. As such, I may wait until I am older to truly settle down and/or go for much older and more experienced partners.A major challenge for me is to loosen up and remember to play; something that usually comes with age. The common adage about me is that my "age in reverse" and slowly learn to let loose and relax as I get older.Once in a relationship, I love privacy, need plenty of alone time with my partners, and are typically wary of public displays of affection. My ideal partnership is sensual, grounded, and totally authentic.In friendships my value truthfulness, wisdom, and stability in my friendships. I am career-oriented and very passionate about what i do for work. This means that my friendships and relationships must take a back seat. Again, the lesson of me is to find that elusive work-play or work-friend balance.