«We moved, my husband jumped on a plane for work, we had three young children, all I knew was how to get to the mall»«Until i met you, I thought I was overthinking it»«I couldn’t cope, I thought there was something wrong with me»«I am Mexican, married to a German who travels a lot for work, we have a two year old, I am drowning.»«I travelled a lot throughout my son’s life, now he won’t listen to me »It's high time life with travelling partners is spoken about in its own right rather than as an afterthought.Who travels? (non-exhaustive list) • military personnel• business people• humanitarian workers• medical personnel• high level athletes• nuclear sector• entertainment industrySome families choose to live in split locations, where one partner stays in one country and the other lives in another country. I GET IT. I've been married to a travelling husband for over 16 years, including two years apart. I WRITE ABOUT IT (Book ‘Holding the Fort Abroad’ & regular blog posts on my website).I RESEARCH IT through interviews with families and therapists. I SPEAK ABOUT IT If you are an organisation, you can invite me to speak about :• How to prepare for a split location• How to use the distance to benefit your marriage• How the travelling parent can take part in family life• Managing postings in Dangerous Locations I PROVIDE 1: 1 COACHING to• start working or training even if you are holding the fort most of the time and don't have much time