Today I’m Cass. 4 years ago, I was Ryan... and Ryan had no idea how to deal with a sexless marriage as a man. I remember how Kathryn "served" me, but I was settling for less and less intimacy and you know what it's like... You can tell when she's not with you. When she's staring off into space or her body isn’t moving with yours and you can definitely tell when you're not having sex.Having 1000's of "the talks", always going backwards in time, but never far enough to when the sex was great. Sure, a few days or weeks of better sex but then, always back to the newest normal - further from true passion, connection and intimacy with Kathryn.Until one day Kathryn hit me with what he remembers as, the Blessing and the Curse. "I"m not attracted to you, I'm not IN love with you, and I'm settling". I was angry but I clicked. If she was just going to stay with me and wasn’t interested in sex anymore, she wasn’t exactly motivated to fix our sex life. So I got to work. You can view more of the story in the link below. With over 2 decades of working with women, nearly exclusively, I felt so embarrassed to have almost lost Kathryn. I was determined to not only save my marriage but Re-Light the FIRE in Kathryn. I catalogued everything I could remember from working with women, beat up dozens of books, took multiple courses and hired coaches and mentors. I went on to build my own (COMPLETE) course, covering what other resources were missing and using it to mentor men: The More Sex BETTER SEX Marriage Reset. Now, with only a few months on social media, I’ve really begun making waves. Kathryn and I are determined to Revolutionize Marriage. It’s our purpose, and mission, is to save your marriage too. We look forward to inspiring you and showing you a better way in your marriage too. GO GET YOUR WIFE!