The Grief Directory

We offer support, advice, services and information to such families by connecting them with willing volunteers, relevant professionals or organizations. We also work to advocate for their rights and to sensitize the general society to the needs of these families and enhance the care that is provided to them. The idea of The Grief Directory was conceived by Dr. Fatima Ali Haider, following the tragic killing of her husband, Dr. Ali Haider, and her eleven-year old son, Murtaza Ali Haider, in February 2013. Her personal journey of grief took a new direction when a friend reached out to her; together they created what they both later realized, was a ‘bridge of compassion’. After the APS incident in Peshawar, the two friends, Drs. Fatima and Narmeen decided to formalize the idea. The enormity of that tragedy compelled them to start thinking about how they could use their personal experience to help the thousands of others whose lives too had been devastated by terrorism. The Grief Directory (TGD) formally started functioning in January 2015 and its aim is to match the needs of affected families with those professionals, organizations and individuals who are willing and able to provide support. This support ranges from financial (preferably in kind), to medical, psychological, legal, and administrative. It involves working with banks, insurance companies, the police, and government organizations. Providing help also takes the form of emotional support which could include sharing a meal, attending a special occasion or lending a listening ear; simple things which are no less important. Help is given without distinguishing between faiths or sects. Where violence divides, compassion unites. What started as a personal journey has become a cause supported by a diverse community of individuals, volunteers and organizations; all of whom have lent their time, resources, and expertise to make this endeavor possible.