What I do is to imagine oneself in the other one. I try to really look at someone. Why does someone sits in a corner? Why does he react with shouts to a question? By experiences in my youth i've been 'asked' to learn to imagine myself in others in order to learn about others and myself. Through imagining oneself in the other I can anticipate on him so that the other one opens itself. Thereby can I help people with learning to have a better cooperation with their surroundings. By uprightness of my side and making contact it's possible to do thisI always choose for the occupant: It has to no sense only fight symptoms to punish or people to isolate. That is external appearance, but there changes nothing. I want that something of their I become active, so that changes last. With making contact this can be possible. I let people tell their tale to me. Afterwards I lay all ideas i have while observing and all theory which I have acquired beside each other and swindles the facts into my gestation. I work with devotion and all the time looking for connection, irrespective of which obstacle someone brings with with itself. Sometimes there is only a thin connection, but i considers this as a beginning.